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When you’re the only adult at home, it’s not just about getting things done—it’s about creating an environment where your child feels grounded. One of the most powerful tools a solo mom can rely on is predictability. Structure and safety don’t always look glamorous, but they’re everything. Why Structure Matters So Much Kids thrive on…
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Being a solo mom means you’re the default for everything—meals, laundry, logistics, decisions. But beyond the visible tasks is the emotional labor of parenting solo. Your child still needs the same empathy, patience, and presence they’d need in a two-parent household—only you’re the one carrying it all. The Emotional Load Is Real It’s hard to…
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That means I don’t just enjoy people—I need people. Social interaction isn’t a nice-to-have for me; it’s like oxygen. When I go too long without real connection, I start to feel foggy, restless, even physically off. It’s not about loneliness, exactly. It’s more like sensory deprivation. And while I do socialize a lot, I’ve been…
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Weekends used to stress me out. They were supposed to be a break—but between catching up on chores, keeping a child entertained, and trying not to unravel completely, they often felt like work in disguise. As a solo parent, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the sheer number of things that need to happen in…
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We spent the weekend at Camp Tockwogh on Maryland’s Eastern Shore for a retreat with our congregation, and honestly? It was kind of perfect. The weather showed up for us—blue skies, warm sun, a light breeze coming off the bay. One of those days that feels like a reward for surviving a long winter and…
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Rebellion might not be the first word you associate with exercise, but for me, it’s part of the appeal—especially on the days when nothing else is working. Sometimes, even my best optimism tricks don’t cut it. I’ve been training my brain to be more optimistic as I wrote about here, and most days, those mindset…
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A couple of weeks ago, a friend reached out to let us know he’d be in town and wanted to see if anyone from our little industry crew was free for dinner. This group came together during COVID, when we formed a virtual networking circle to stay connected while everything else was shut down. What…
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Choosing a hotel used to be all about location — now, as a solo parent and frequent traveler, I know the real deal-breakers are space, breakfast, and a good bathroom. Location Still Matters — But It’s Not Everything There was a time when I picked hotels almost purely based on location. The closer to the…
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I’ve never been the most naturally optimistic person. Left to my own devices, I tend to be more realistic, cautious, and serious. Lately, though, I started wondering if a slightly higher natural affect — a little more brightness, a little more ease — might make daily life feel better. I didn’t want to fake positivity…
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When you’re a solo parent, risk takes on a whole new meaning. Every decision you make — from career moves to daily routines — is no longer just about you. It’s about the wellbeing of the small person who depends on you completely. There’s no backup plan. No second adult to catch the pieces if…